French and German speakers in the same team: when language changes the meeting
A project meeting brings together four people from Lausanne and three from Zurich. It is held in French, out of courtesy to the French speakers and because the project manager is from Geneva. The Zurich colleagues follow, answer when asked, and the next day send a long email in German that calls half the decisions into question.
The French speakers see it as a lack of candour. The German speakers simply waited until they could express themselves in a language in which they felt precise.
Language before mentality
This kind of scene is readily explained by differences in character between the regions. That is rarely the right track. The first difference is linguistic, and it is subtler than it looks.
In German-speaking Switzerland, the everyday spoken language is Swiss German, in its regional variants, while writing is done in Standard German. Many French speakers learned Standard German at school; very few understand the dialect easily. Conversely, the French a German speaker has learned is often enough to follow a meeting, much less so to counter a well-built argument.
So the language of a meeting does not only decide who understands. It decides who can object.
Choosing the language consciously
No solution is perfect, but three options work, provided they are chosen rather than drifted into:
- one language per channel: spoken exchanges in one language, writing in the other, which gives everyone a moment in which they are at ease;
- alternating, by meeting or by topic, announced in advance;
- English as neutral ground, which only works if nobody finds themselves in their third language facing colleagues in their first.
In every case, short written minutes sent the same day recover most of what was lost in the spoken exchange. Meeting facilitation techniques take on particular importance here.
Beware of regional grids
Generalisations — Swiss Germans more direct and more formal, French speakers more diplomatic — contain some observation. They become harmful as soon as they are applied to a person. An engineer from Basel can be far more indirect than a saleswoman from Vaud.
It is better to work on each person’s actual preferences. DISC provides a shared vocabulary for this, which we use in DISC and Driving Forces.
Coordinating without shared authority
These teams are often cross-functional: members report to different managers, at different sites. The language difficulty then adds to the lack of a reporting line, and every misunderstanding costs more to put right. That is the territory of cross-functional management, where you learn to secure commitment without being able to impose it.
A bilingual team is not a problem team. It is a team whose working rules cannot stay implicit.
Frequently asked questions
Should a single working language be imposed?
A clear rule is better than an implicit habit, but it does not have to be a single language. Some teams hold meetings in French and write in German, others alternate, and others choose English. What matters is that the choice is explicit and that everyone knows in which language they can ask a question or voice a disagreement.
Are Swiss Germans really more direct?
It is a generalisation that contains some observation and a lot of exceptions. The differences between two people from the same region are often greater than those between two regions. Working on each person's communication preferences, for example with DISC, is more useful than applying a regional grid to individuals.
Does ABP train in German?
No. ABP Consulting delivers its courses in French, English and Spanish. This site is translated into German so that German-speaking teams can read it, but a session for a German-speaking team will be held in English or French, depending on what participants master well enough to debate in.
Training on this topic

Communication and self-awareness
Self-awareness and positive communication
Understand why you communicate the way you do before trying to change anything. Two days: an Enneagram test to place how you operate, then practical techniques to ask, refuse and criticise without attacking.

Communication and self-awareness
DISC and Driving Forces
Two days on two complementary instruments: DISC describes how someone behaves, Driving Forces describe what drives them underneath. Each participant receives their individual report and leaves with a strategy for the people they find hardest to work with.

Management
The manager-leader toolkit
The firm's core programme. Three days to stop settling everything case by case and to have tools that hold: set a frame, correct without humiliating, delegate for real, and adapt how you work to each person.
